Had ghastly doubts its precious life Was pledged for aye to the wrong wife. Could it be else? A youth pursues
A maid, whom chance, not he, did choose, Till to his strange arms hurries she In a despair of modesty.
Then simply, and without pretence Of insight or experience,
They plight their vows.
"We cannot speak them yea or nay; "The thing proceedeth from the Lord!" And wisdom still approves their word; For God created so these two
They match as well as others do That take more pains, and trust Him less Who rarely fails, if ask'd, to bless His children's hopeless ignorance, And blind election of life's chance. Verily, choice not matters much, (If but the woman's truly such, And the young man has led the life Without which how shall e'er the wife Be the one woman in the world? Love's sensitive tendrils sicken, curl'd Round Folly's former stay; for 'tis The doom of an unsanction'd bliss
To mock some good that, gain'd, keeps still The taint of the rejected ill.
Howbeit, tho' both be true, that she Of whom the maid was prophecy
As yet lives not, and Love rebels Against the law of any else; And as a steed takes blind alarm, Disowns the rein, and hunts his harm, So, misdespairing word and act May now perturb the happiest pact. The more, indeed, is love, the more Peril to love is now in store. Against it, nothing can be done But only this: leave ill alone!
Who tries to mend his wife succeeds
As he who knows not what he needs.
He much affronts a worth as high
As his, and that equality
Of spirits in which abide the grace
And joy of her subjected place;
And does the still growth check and blur
Of contraries, confusing her
Who better knows what he desires
Than he, and to that mark aspires
With perfect zeal, and a deep wit Which nothing helps but faith in it. So, handsomely ignoring all In which love's promise short may fall
Of full performance, honour that, As won, which aye love worketh at ! It is but as the pedigree
Of perfectness which is to be That mortal good can honour claim; Yet honour here to scant were shame And robbery; for it is the mould Wherein to beauty runs the gold Of good intention, and the stay That leads aloft the ivy stray Of human sensibilities.
Such honour, with a conduct wise In common things, as, not to steep The lofty mind of love in sleep Of overmuch familiarness; Not to degrade its kind caress As those do that can feel no more, So give themselves to pleasures o'er; Not to let morning-sloth destroy The evening-flower, domestic joy; Not by uxoriousness to chill The frank devotion of her will
Who can but half her love confer
On him that cares for nought but her: These, and like obvious prudencies Observed, he's safest that relies,
For the hope she will not always seem, Caught, but a laurel or a stream, On time; on her unsearchable Love-wisdom; on their work done well, Discreet with mutual aid; on might Of shared affliction and delight; On much whereof hearts keep account,
Though heads forget; on babes, chief fount Of union, and for which babes are No less than this for them, nay far More, for the bond of man and wife To the very verge of future life Strengthens, and yearns for brighter day While others, with their use, decay, And, though love-nuptial purpose keeps Of offspring, as the centre sleeps Within the wheel, transmitting thence Fury to the circumference, Love's self the noblest offspring is And sanction of the nuptial kiss; Lastly, on either's primal curse, Which help and sympathy reverse To blessings.
God, who may be well Jealous of His chief miracle,
Bids sleep the meddling soul of man,
Whereby, from his unweeting side, The wife's created, and the bride,
That chance one of her strange, sweet sex, He to his glad life did annex,
Grows, more and more, by day and night, The one in the whole world opposite Of him, and in her nature all
So suited and reciprocal
To his especial form of sense, Affection and intelligence,
That, whereas, in its earlier day, The least flaw threaten'd love's decay, No crime could now, on either's part, Do more than make the other start, And, full of pity, say, "It is
I, somehow I, who have done this;" And, whereas love at first had strange Relapses into taste for change,
It now finds (wondrous this, but true!) The long-accustom'd only new,
And the untried common; and, whereas An equal seeming danger was Of likeness lacking joy and force, Or difference reaching to divorce, Now can the finished lover see Marvel of me most far from me, Whom, without pride, he may admire, Without Narcissus' doom, desire, Serve without selfishness, and love "Even as himself," in sense above Niggard "as much," yea, as she is The only part of him that's his.
I do not say Love's youth returns; Love's youth which so divinely yearns! But just esteem of present good Shows all regret such gratitude As if the sparrow in her nest, Her woolly young beneath her breast, Should these despise, and sorrow for Her five blue eggs that are no more. Nor say, the fruit has quite the scope Of the flower's spiritual hope. Love's best is service, and of this Howe'er devout, use dulls the bliss. Though love is all of earth that's dear, Its home, my children, is not here. The pathos of eternity Does in its fullest pleasure sigh.
Be grateful and most glad thereof. Parting, as 'tis, is pain enough. If love, by joy, has learn'd to give Praise with the nature sensitive, At last, to God, we then possess
And henceforth very well may wait The unbarring of the golden gate Wherethrough, already, faith can see That apter to each wish than we Is God, and curious to bless Better than we devise or guess; Not without condescending craft To disappoint with joy, and waft Our vessels frail, when worst He mocks The sight with breakers and with rocks, To happiest havens. You have heard Your bond death-sentenced by His Word. What if, in heaven, the name be o'er, Because the thing is so much more? All are, 'tis writ, as angels there; Nor male nor female. Each a stair In the hierarchical ascent
Of active and recipient
Affections; what if all are both By turn, as they themselves betroth To adoring what is next above, Or serving what's below their love? Of this we are certified, that we Are shaped here for eternity,
So that a careless word will make Its dint upon the form we take
For ever. If, then, years have wrought Two strangers to become, in thought, Will, and affection, but one man
For likeness, as none others can Without like process, shall this tree,
The king of all the forest, be,
Alas, the only one of all
That shall not lie where it doth fall?
Shall this most quenchless flame, here nurst
By everything, yea, when revers'd,
Blazing, like torch, the brighter, wink, Flicker, and into nothing shrink, When all else burns baleful or brave In the keen air beyond the grave, The air love gasps for, sickening here Out of its native atmosphere?
It cannot be! The Scriptures tell Only what's inexpressible,
And, 'gainst each word, to make it right, Themselves propound the opposite. Beware; for fiends in triumph laugh O'er him who learns the truth by half! Beware; for God will not endure For men to make their hope more pure Than His good promise, or require Another than the five-string'd lyre Which He has vow'd again to the hands
The Powers and Princedoms of the Air, Which make of none effect man's hope, Bepraising heaven's etherial cope, But covering with their cloudy cant Its counterpoising adamant,
Which strengthens ether for the flight Of angels, makes and measures height, And in materiality
Exceeds our Earth's in like degree As all else Earth exceeds. Do I Here utter aught that's dark or high? Have you not seen a bird's beak slay Proud Psyche, on a summer's day?
Down fluttering drop the frail wings four, Wanting the weight that made them soar! Spirit is heavy Nature's wing,
And is not rightly anything Without its burthen, whereas this, Wingless, at least a maggot is, And, wing'd is honour and delight Increasing endlessly with height.
ing among the foremost establishments in their respective trades. There are the patriarchs of French associative labour, the "jewellers in gilt," doing their quiet business of about 8,000l. a year, who date already since 1834. There is the great association of masons, numbering its hundred members, with a number of smaller associations in the building trades following in its wake; it has suffered during the past year through some ill-judged undertakings, but is seeking now how best to avail itself of the lessons of the past. There are the arm-chair makers and the joiners of the Cour St. Joseph, who have weathered all the tricks of their managers, and have never lost their reputation for good work. There are the chair-turners of the Rue Popincourt, with their vast workshops, abundant
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