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CHAPTER III.

JEWISH CUSTOMS RELATING TO MARRIAGE.

I. Marriage accounted a sacred Obligation by the Jews.-II. Polygamy tolerated.-Condition of Concubines.-III. Nuptial Contract, and Espousals.-IV. Nuptial Ceremonies.-V. Divorces.

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I. MARRIAGE was considered by the Jews as a matter of more speedy peopling of the world, yet it is certain there is the strictest obligation. They understood literally and as a no such toleration under the Christian dispensation, and, precept these words uttered to our first parents, Be fruitful, therefore, their example is no rule at this day. The first who and multiply, and replenish the earth. (Gen. i. 28.) Their violated this primitive law of marriage was Lamech, who continual expectation of the coming of the Messiah added took unto him two wives. (Gen. iv. 19.) Afterwards we read great weight to this obligation. Every one lived in the hopes that Abraham had concubines. (Gen. xxv. 6.) And his that this blessing should attend their posterity; and therefore practice was followed by the other patriarchs, which at last they thought themselves bound to further the expectance of grew to a most scandalous excess in Solomon's and Rehohim, by adding to the race of mankind, of whose seed he was boam's days. The word concubine in most Latin authors, to be born, and whose happiness he was to promote, by that and even with us at this day, signifies a woman, who, though temporal kingdom for which they looked upon his appear-she be not married to a man, yet lives with him as his wife; but in the Sacred Writings it is understood in another sense. There it means a lawful wife, but of a lower order and of an inferior rank to the mistress of the family; and, therefore, she had equal right to the marriage-bed with the chief wife; and her issue was reputed legitimate in opposition to bastards: but in all other respects these concubines were inferior to the primary wife: for they had no authority in the family, nor any share in household government. If they had been servants in the family before they came to be concubines, they continued to be so afterwards, and in the same subjec tion to their mistress as before. The dignity of these primary wives gave their children the preference in the succession, so that the children of concubines did not inherit their father's fortune, except upon the failure of the children by these more honourable wives; and, therefore, it was, that the father commonly provided for the children by these concubines in his own lifetime, by giving them a portion of his cattle and goods, which the Scripture calls gifts. Thus Sarah was Abraham's primary wife, by whom he had Isaac, who was the heir of his wealth. But besides her, he had two concubines, Hagar and Keturah; by these he had other children whom he distinguished from Isaac, for it is said, He gave them gifts, and sent them away while he yet lived. (Gen. xxv. 5, 6.) In Mesopotamia, as appears from Gen. xxix. 26., the younger daughter could not be given in marriage " before the first-born" or elder, and the same practice continues to this day among the Armenians, and also among the Hindoos, with whom it is considered criminal to give the younger daughter in marriage before the elder, or for a younger son to marry while his elder brother remains unmarried.3

Hence celibacy was esteemed a great reproach in Israel; for, besides that they thought no one could live a single life without great danger of sin, they esteemed it a counteracting of the divine counsels in the promise, that the seed of the woman should bruise the head of the serpent. On this account it was that Jephthah's daughter deplored her virginity, because she thus deprived her father of the hopes which he might entertain from heirs descended from her, by whom his name might survive in Israel, and, consequently, of his expectation of having the Messiah to come of his seed, which was the general desire of all the Israelitish women. For the same reason also sterility was regarded among the Jews (as it is to this day among the modern Egyptians) as one of the greatest misfortunes that could befall any woman, insomuch that to have a child, though the woman immediately died thereupon, was accounted a less affliction than to have none at all; and to this purpose we may observe, that the midwife comforts Rachel in her labour (even though she knew her to be at the point of death) in these terms, Fear not, for thou shalt bear this son also. (Gen. xxxv. 17.)

From this expectation proceeded their exactness in causing the brother of a husband, who died without issue, to marry the widow he left behind, and the disgrace that attended his refusing so to do; for, as the eldest son of such a marriage became the adopted child of the deceased, that child and the posterity flowing from him were, by a fiction of law, considered as the real offspring and heirs of the deceased brother. This explains the words of Isaiah, that seven women should take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel; only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach. (Isa. iv. 1.) This was the reason also why the Jews commonly married very young. The age prescribed to men by the Rabbins was eighteen years. A virgin was ordinarily married at the age of puberty, that is, twelve years complete, whence her husband is called the guide of her youth (Prov. ii. 17.), and the husband of her youth (Joel i. 8.); and the not giving of maidens in marriage is in Psal. lxxviii. 63. represented as one of the effects of the divine anger towards Israel. In like manner, among the Hindoos, the delaying of the marriage of daughters is to this day re-mise of marriage, made by the man and woman each to the garded as a great calamity and disgrace.2

III. No formalities appear to have been used by the Jews--at least none were enjoined to them by Moses-in joining man and wife together. Mutual consent, followed by consummation, was deemed sufficient. The manner in which a daughter was demanded in marriage is described in the case of Shechem, who asked Dinah the daughter of Jacob in marriage (Gen. xxxiv. 6-12.); and the nature of the contract, together with the mode of solemnizing the marriage, is described in Gen. xxiv. 50, 51. 57. 67. There was, indeed, a previous espousal or betrothing, which was a solemn proother, at such a distance of time as they agreed upon. This was sometimes done by writing, sometimes by the delivery of a piece of silver to the bride in presence of witnesses, as a pledge of their mutual engagements. We are informed by the Jewish writers that kisses were given in token of the espousals (to which custom there appears to be an allusion in Canticles i. 2.), after which the parties were reckoned as man and wife.5 "After such espousals were made (which

3 Home's History of the Jews, vol. ii. p. 352. Paxton's Illustrations of Scripture, vol. iii. p. 129. 2d edit. Hartley's Researches in Greece and the Levant, pp. 229, 230.

II. From the first institution of marriage it is evident that God gave but one woman to one man; and if it be a true, as it is a common, observation, that there are every where more males than females born in the world, it follows that those men certainly act contrary to the laws both of God and nature who have more than one wife at the same time. But though God, as supreme lawgiver, had a power to dispense with his own laws, and actually did so with the Jews for the 1 The most importunate applicants to Dr. Richardson for medical advice were those who consulted him on account of sterility, which in Egypt (he says) is still considered the greatest of all evils. "The unfortunate couple believe that they are bewitched, or under the curse of heaven, which they fancy the physician has the power to remove. It is in vain that he declares the insufficiency of the healing art to take away their reproach. The par-manded, that if any were minded to take a woman for his wife, he should ties hang round, dunning and importuning him for the love of God, to prescribe for them, that they may have children like other people. 'Give me children, or I die,' said the fretful Sarah to her husband; 'Give me children, or I curse you,' say the barren Egyptians to their physicians." Dr. Richardson's Travels along the Mediterranean, &c. vol. ii. p. 106. A nearly similar scene is described by Mr. R. R. Madden, who travelled in the East between the years 1824 and 1827. Travels in Turkey, &c. vol. ii. p. 51. 2 Ward's History, &c. of the Hindoos, vol. ii. p. 327. Maurice's Indian Antiquities, vol. vii. p. 329. Home's History of the Jews, vol. ii. pp. 350, 351.

"Before the giving of the law (saith Maimonides), if the man and woman had agreed about marriage, he brought her into his house and privately married her. But, after the giving of the law, the Israelites were com receive her, first before witnesses, and henceforth let her be to him to wife,-as it is written, 'If any one take a wife.' This taking is one of the affirmative precepts of the law, and is called 'espousing." Lightfoot's Hora Hebr. on Matt. i. 18. (Works, vol. xi. p. 18. 8vo. edit. 1823.)

Dr. Gill's Comment. on Sol. Song i. 2. The same ceremony was practised among the primitive Christians. (Bingham's Antiquities, book xxii. c. 3. sect. 6.) By the civil law, indeed, the kiss is made a ceremony, in some respects, of importance to the validity of the nuptial contract. (Cod. Justin. lib. v. tit. 3. de Donation. ante Nuptias, leg. 16.) Fry's Translation of the Canticles, p. 33.

twenty years before, the Rev. Dr. E. D. Clarke, while exploring the ruins of Cana in Galilee, saw several large massy stone water-pots, answering the description given of the ancient vessels of the country (John ii. 6.); not preserved nor exhibited as relics, but lying about, disregarded by the present inhabitants as antiquities with whose original use they were acquainted. From their appearance, and the number of them, it was quite evident that the practice of keeping water in large stone pots, each holding from eighteen to twentyseven gallons, was once common in the country. In the later times of the Jewish polity, BASKETS formed a necessary article of furniture to the Jews; who, when travelling either among the Gentiles or the Samaritans, were accustomed to carry their provisions with them in xowo, baskets, in order to avoid defilement by eating with strangers.2 Large sacks are still, as they anciently were (John ix. 11. Gen. xliv. 1-3.), employed for carrying provisions and baggage of every descrip

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Bowls, cups, and drinking vessels of gold and silver, it appears from 1 Kings x. 21. were used in the courts of princes; but the modern Arabs, as the Jewish people anciently did, keep their water, milk, wine, and other liquors, in BOTTLES made of skins, which are chiefly of a red colour (Exod. xxv. 5.); and their mouths are closed by slips of wood, that they may contain milk or other liquids. These bottles, when old, are frequently rent, but are capable of being repaired, by being bound up or pieced in various ways. Of this description were the wine bottles of the Gibeonites, old and rent, and bound up. (Josh. ix. 4.) As new wine was liable to ferment, and, consequently, would burst the old skins, all prudent persons would put it into new skins. To this usage our Lord alludes in Matt. ix. 17. Mark ii. 22. and Luke v. 37, 38. Bottles of skin, it is well known, are still in use in Spain, where they are called Borrachas.5 As the Arabs make fires in their tents, which have no chimneys, they must be greatly incommoded by the smoke, which blackens all their utensils and taints their skins. David, when driven from the court of Saul, compares himself to a bottle in the smoke. (Psal. cxix. 83.) He must have felt acutely, when he was driven from the vessels of gold and silver in the palace of Saul, to live like an Arab, and drink out of a smoky leathern bottle. His language is, as if he had said," My present appearance is as different from what it was when I dwelt at court, as the furniture of a palace differs from that of a poor Arab's tent." Apartments were lighted by means of LAMPS, which were fed with olive oil, and were commonly placed upon elevated stands. (Matt. v. 15.) The lamps of Gideon's soldiers (Judg. vii. 16.), and those of the wise and foolish virgins (Matt. xxv. 1-10.), were of a different sort. They were a kind of torches or flambeaux made of iron or earthenware, wrapped about with old linen, moistened from time to time with oil.

V. In progress of time, as men increased upon the earth, and found themselves less safe in their detached tents, they began to live in society, and fortified their simple dwellings by surrounding them with a ditch, and a rude breastwork, or wall, whence they could hurl stones against their enemies. Hence arose villages, towns, and CITIES, of which Cain is said to have been the first builder. In the time of Moses, the cities of the Canaanites were both numerous and strongly fortified. (Num. xiii. 28.) In the time of David, when the number of the Israelites was greatly increased, their cities must have proportionably increased; and the vast population which (we have already seen) Palestine maintained in the time of the Romans is a proof both of the size and number of their cities. The principal strength of the cities in Palestine consisted in their situation: they were for the most part erected on mountains or other eminences which were difficult of access; and the weakest places were strengthened by fortifications and walls of extraordinary thickness. four cubits in breadth, in order that the rays of the sun may be kept off; but it is evident that they must have formerly been wider, from the fact that carriages were driven through them, which are now very seldom, if ever, to be seen in the East. The houses, however, rarely stand together, and most of them have spacious gardens annexed to them. It is not to be supposed that the almost incredible tract of land, which Nineveh and Babylon are said to have covered, could have been filled with houses closely standing together: an cient writers, indeed, testify that almost a third part of Baby lon was occupied by fields and gardens.

The streets in the Asiatic cities do not exceed from two to

In the early ages of the world the MARKETS were held at or near the Gates of the Cities (which, we have already seen, were the seats of justice), generally within the walls, though sometimes without them. Here commodities were exposed to sale, either in the open air or in tents (2 Kings vii. 18. 2 Chron. xviii. 9. Job xxix. 7.): but in the time of Christ, as we learn from Josephus, the markets were enclosed in the same manner as the modern eastern bazars, which are shut at night, and where the traders' shops are disposed in rows or streets; and (in large towns) the dealers in particular commodities are confined to particular streets.

The GATES of the Cities, and the vacant places next adjacent to them, must have been of considerable size; for we read that Ahab king of Israel assembled four hundred false prophets before himself and Jehoshaphat king of Judah, in the Gate of Samaria. (1 Kings xxii. 10.) And besides these prophets, we may readily conclude that each of these monarchs had numerous attendants in waiting. Over or by the side of many gates there were towers, in which watchmen were stationed to observe what was going on at a distance. (2 Sam. xviii. 24. 33.)8

CHAPTER II.

ON THE DRESS OF THE JEWS.9

1. Dress in the early Ages.—II. Tunic.-III. Upper Garment.—Other Articles of Apparel.-IV. Coverings for the Head.Mode of dressing the Hair.-V. Sandals.—VI. Seals or Signets, and Rings.-VII. Some Articles of Pemale Apparel elucidated. Complexion of the Women.-VIII. Rending of Garments, a Sign of Mourning.—IX. Numerous Changes of Apparel deemed a necessary Part of their Treasure.

I. IN the early ages, the dress of mankind was very sim- | wards fine linen, and silk, dyed with purple, scarlet, and ple. Skins of animals furnished the first materials (Gen. crimson, became the usual apparel of the more opulent. iii. 21. Heb. xi. 37.),10 which, as men increased in numbers (2 Sam. i. 24. Prov. xxxi. 22. Luke xvi. 19.) In the more and civilization, were exchanged for more costly articles, early ages, garments of various colours were in great esteem: made of wool and flax, of which they manufactured woollen such was Joseph's robe, of which his envious brethren stripand linen garments (Lev. xiii. 47. Prov. xxxi. 13.); after-ped him, when they resolved to sell him." (Gen. xxxvii. 23.) Kuinöel, on Matt. xiv. 19.

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1 Travels, vol. ii. p. 445. Rae Wilson's Travels, vol. i. pp. 175, 176. Ibid. vol. i. p. 176. various remarks illustrative of the nature of drinking vessels anciently Harmer's Observations, vol. 1. p. 217. See also vol. ii. pp. 135-138. for Calmet's Dictionary, voce

in use among the Jews.

Jahn et Ackermann, Archæol. Bibl. '§ 40. Lamps.

the

See p. 54. supra. 313-315. Jahn et Ackermann, Archæol. Bibl. § 41. Pareau, Ant. Hebr. pp. 367-371.

Bruning, Antiq. Hebr. pp. 279–281. Calmet, Dissertations, tom. i. pp.

The principal authorities for this chapter are Calmet's Dissertation sur les Habits des Hebreux, Dissert. tom. i. pp. 337-371.; and Pareau, Antiquitas Hebraica, pp. 371-385.

10 Mr. Rae Wilson met with some Arabs, residing near the (so called) village of Jeremiah, who were clothed in sheep and goat skins, open at the neck. Travels in the Holy Land, &c. vol. I. p. 189 3d edition.

Robes of various colours were likewise appropriated to the virgin daughters of kings (2 Sam. xiii. 18.), who also wore that the Jewish garments were worn pretty long; for it is richly embroidered vests. (Psal. xlv. 13, 14.)12 It appears mentioned as an aggravation of the affront done to David's ambassadors by the king of Ammon, that he cut off their garments in the middle, even to their buttocks. (2 Sam. x. 4.)

The dress of the Jews, in the ordinary ranks of life, was simple and nearly uniform. John the Baptist had his raiment

11 A coat of many colours is as much esteemed in some parts of Palestine at this day as it was in the time of Jacob, and of Sisera. Bucking ham's Travels among the Arab Tribes, p. 31. Emerson's Letters from the Eg ean, vol. ii. p. 31.

12 Jahn et Ackermann, §§ 113, 119.

of camels' hair (Matt. iii. 4.),—not of the fine hair of that animal which is wrought into camlets (in imitation of which, though made of wool, is the English camlet), but of the long and shaggy hair of camels, which in the East is manufactured into a coarse stuff like that anciently worn by monks and anchorets.1

It is evident, from the prohibition against changing the dresses of the two sexes, that in the time of Moses there was a difference between the garments worn respectively by men and women; but in what that difference consisted it is now impossible to determine. The fashion, too, of their apparel does not appear to have continued always the same; for, before the first subversion of the Jewish monarchy by Nebuchadnezzar, there were some who delighted to wear strange (that is, foreign) apparel. In every age, however, there were certain garments (as there still are in the East) which were common to both sexes, though their shape was somewhat different.

II. The simplest and most ancient was the TUNIC, or inner garment, which was worn next the body. At first, it seems to have been a large linen cloth, which hung down to the knees, but which was afterwards better adapted to the form of the body, and was sometimes furnished with sleeves. The tunics of the women were larger than those worn by men. Ordinarily they were composed of two breadths of cloth sewed together; hence those which were woven whole, or without seam on the sides or shoulders, were greatly esteemed. Such was the tunic or coat of Jesus Christ mentioned in John xix. 23. A similar tunic was worn by the high-priest. This garment was fastened round the foins, whenever activity was required, by a girdle. (2 Kings iv. 29. John xxi. 7. Acts xii. 8.) The prophets and poorer class of people wore leathern girdles (2 Kings i. 8. Matt. iii. 4.), as is still the case in the East; but the girdles of the opulent, especially those worn by women of quality, were composed of more precious materials, and were more skilfully wrought. (Ezek. xvi. 10. Isa. iii. 21.) The girdles of the inhabitants of the East, Dr. Shaw informs us, are usually of worsted, very artfully woven into a variety of figures, such as the rich girdles of the virtuous virgins may be supposed to have been. (Prov. xxxi. 24.) They are made to fold several times about the body; one end of which being doubled back, and sown along the edges, serves them for a purse, agreeably to the acceptation of wvn in the Scriptures (Matt. x. 9. Mark viii. 6. where it is rendered a purse). The Turks make a further use of these girdles, by fixing therein their knives and poniards: whilst the Hojias, i. e. the writers and secretaries, suspend in the same their inkhorns; a custom as old as the prophet Ezekiel, who mentions (ix. 2.) a person clothed in white linen, with an inkhorn upon his loins.3

III. Over the tunic was worn a larger vest, or UPPER GARMENT. It was a piece of cloth nearly square, like the hykes or blankets woven by the Barbary women, about six yards long, and five or six feet broad. The two corners, which were thrown over the shoulders, were called the skirts, literally, the wings of the garment. (1 Sam. xv. 11. xxiv. 4, 5. 11. Hag. ii. 12. Zech. viii. 23.) This garment serves the Kabyles or Arabs for a complete dress in the day; and as they sleep in their raiment (as the Israelites did of old, Deut. xxiv. 13.) it likewise serves them for their bed and covering in the night. "It is a loose, but troublesome kind of garment, being frequently disconcerted and falling to the ground, so that the person who wears it is every moment obliged to tuck it up, and fold it anew around his body. This shows the great use of a girdle whenever they are engaged in any active employment, and the force of the Scripture injunction alluding to it, of having our loins girded, in order to set about it. The method of wearing these garments, with the use to which they are at other times put, in serving for coverlids to their beds, leads us to infer that the finer sort of them (such as are worn by the ladies and by persons of distinction) are the peplus of the ancients. Ruth's veil, which held six measures of barley (Ruth iii. 15.), might be of the like fashion, and have served extraordinarily for the same use; as were also the clothes (ra ipari, the upper garments) of the Israelites (Exod. xii. 34.), in which they folded up their kneading-troughs: as the Moors, Arabs, and Kabyles do, to this day, things of the like burden and

On this subject see Capt. Light's Travels in Egypt, &c. p. 135. and Mr. Morier's Second Journey in Persia, p. 44. Chardin assures us, that the modern Bervises wear garments of coarse camels' hair and also great leathern girdles. Harmer's Obs. vol. ii. p. 487.

2 Josephus, Ant. Jud. lib. iii. c. 7. § 4. Shaw's Travels, vol. i. pp. 409, 410. 8vo. edit.

incumbrance in their hykes. Instead of the fibula that was used by the Romans, the Arabs join together with thread or a wooden bodkin the two upper corners of this garment; and after having placed them first over one of their shoulders, they then fold the rest of it about their bodies. The outer fold serves them frequently instead of an apron, wherein they carry herbs, leaves, corn, &c., and may illustrate several allusions made thereto in Scripture; as gathering the lap full of wild gourds (2 Kings iv. 39.), rendering seven-fold, giving good measure into the bosom (Psalm cxxix. 7. Luke vi. 38.), and shaking the lap." (Neh. v. 13.) It was these ipari, or upper garments, which the Jewish populace strewed in the road during Christ's triumphant progress to Jerusalem. (Matt. xxi. 8.) A person divested of this garment, conformably to the Hebrew idiom, is said to be naked. (2 Sam. vi. 20. John xxi. 7.) By the Mosaic constitution, in Num. xv. 37-40., the Israelites were enjoined to put fringes on the borders of their upper garments that they might remember alt the commandments of the Lord to do them. A similar exhortation is recorded in Deut. vi. 8. compared with Exod. xiii. 16. But, in succeeding ages, these injunctions were abused to superstitious purposes; and among the charges alleged against the Pharisees by Jesus Christ, is that of enlarging their PHYLACTERIES, and the fringes of their garments (Matt. xxiii. 5.), as indicating their pretensions to a more studious and perfect observance of the law. These phylacteries consisted of four strips or scrolls of parchment, or the dressed skin of some clean animal, inscribed with four paragraphs of the law, taken from Exod. xiii. 1-10. and xiii. 11-16. Deut. vi. 4-9. and xi. 13-21. all inclusive,; which the Pharisees, interpreting literally (as do the modern rabbins) Deut. vi. 8. and other similar passages, tied to the fronts of their caps and on their arms, and also inscribed on their doorposts. These phylacteries were regarded as amulets, or, at least, as efficacious in keeping off evil spirits, whence their Greek name harp, from quarrw, to guard or preserve. The practice of inscribing passages of the Koran upon the door-posts of their houses is said to be still continued by the Mohammedans in Judæa and Syria. The apodov, hem, or border of Christ's garment, out of which a healing power issued to the diseased who touched it (Matt. ix. 20. xiv. 36. Mark vi. 56. Luke viii. 44.), was the fringe which he wore, in obedience to the law.

The Xapus, chlamys, or scarlet robe with which our Saviour was arrayed in mock majesty (Matt. xxvii. 28. 31.), was a scarlet robe worn by the Roman soldiers. The Ern was a flowing robe reaching to the feet, and worn by persons of distinction. (Mark xii. 38. xvi. 5. Luke xv. 22. xx. 46. Rev. vi. 11. vii. 9. 13, 14.) The Ender was a linen upper garment, worn by the Orientals in summer and by night, instead of the usual ariv. (Mark xiv. 51, 52.) It was also used as an envelope for dead bodies. (Matt. xxvii. 59. Mark xv. 46. Luke xxiii. 53.) The ac, or cloak (2 Tim. iv. 13.), was the same as the penula of the Romans, viz. a travelling cloak with a hood to protect the wearer against the weather. The Zuacy, or handkerchief, corresponded to the Kapor of the Greeks, and the sudarium of the Romans, from whom it passed to the Chaldæans and Syrians with greater latitude of signification, and was used to denote any linen cloth. (John xi. 44. xx. 7. Acts xix. 12.) The ETv (semicinctium), or apron, passed also from the Romans: it was made of linen, surrounded half the body (Acts xix, 12.), and corresponded nearly to the Пapua of the Greeks, Whenever the men journeyed, a staff was a necessary accompaniment. (Gen. xxxii. 10. xxxviii. 18. Matt. x. 10. Mark vi. 8.)

IV. Originally, men had no other COVERING FOR THE HEAD than that which nature itself supplied, the hair. Calmet is of opinion, that the Hebrews never wore any dress or covering on their heads: David, when driven from Jerusalem (he urges), fled with his head covered with his upper garment; and Absalom would not have been suspended among the boughs of an oak by his hair, if he had worn a covering, (2 Sam. xvi. 30. xviii. 9.) But may not these have been

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particular cases? David went up the Mount of Olives, as a mourner and a fugitive; and Absalom, fleeing in battle, might have lost his cap or bonnet. It is certain, that the (TSANIPH), or turban, was common both to men and women. (Job xxix. 14. Isa. iii. 23.)

of God of great price. (1 Pet. iii. 3.)3 On the contrary, the men in those times universally wore their hair short, as appears from all the books, medals, and statues that have been transmitted to us. This circumstance, which formed a principal distinction in dress between the sexes, happily illusLong hair was in great esteem among the Jews. The hair trates the following passage in St. Paul (1 Cor. xi. 14, 15.): of Absalom's head was of such prodigious length, that in his Doth not even nature itself teach you, that if a MAN have LONG flight, when defeated in battle, as he was riding with great HAIR it is a SHAME to him. But if a WOMAN have LONG HAIR speed under the trees, it caught hold of one of the boughs; it is a GLORY to her for her hair is given her for a covering. in consequence of which he was lifted off his saddle, and his "The Jewish and Grecian ladies, moreover, never apmule running from beneath him, left him suspended in the peared in public without a veil. Hence St. Paul severely air, unable to extricate himself. (2 Sam. xviii. 9.) The censures the Corinthian women for appearing in the church plucking off the hair was a great disgrace among the Jews; without a veil, and praying to God uncovered, by which they and, therefore, Nehemiah punished in this manner those threw off the decency and modesty of the sex, and exposed Jews who had been guilty of irregular marriages, in order to themselves and their religion to the satire and calumny of put them to the greater shame. (Neh. xiii. 25.) Baldness the heathens. The whole passage beautifully and clearly was also considered as a disgrace. (2 Sam. xiv. 26. 2 Kings exhibits to the reader's ideas the distinguishing customs ii. 23. Isa. iii. 24.) On festive occasions, the more opulent which then prevailed in the different dress and appearance perfumed their hair with fragrant unguents. (Psal. xxiii. 5. of the sexes." (Compare 1 Cor. xi. 13-16.) Eccl. ix. 8. Matt. vi. 17. xxvi. 7.) And it should seem, from Cant. v. 11., that black hair was considered to be the most beautiful.

The Jews wore their beards very long, as we may see from the example of the ambassadors, whom David sent to the king of the Ammonites, and whom that ill-advised king caused to be shaved by way of affront. (2 Sam. x. 4.) And as the shaving of them was accounted a great indignity, so the cutting off half their beards, which made them still more ridiculous, was a great addition to the affront, in a country where beards were held in such great veneration.

In the East, especially among the Arabs and Turks, the beard is even now reckoned the greatest ornament of a man, and is not trimmed or shaven, except in cases of extreme grief: the hand is almost constantly employed in smoothing the beard and keeping it in order, and it is often perfumed as if it were sacred. Thus, we read of the fragrant oil, which ran down from Aaron's beard to the skirts of his garment. (Psal. cxxxiii. 2. Exod. xxx. 30.) A shaven beard is reputed to be more unsightly than the loss of a nose; and a man who possesses a reverend beard is, in their opinion, incapable of acting dishonestly. If they wish to affirm any thing with peculiar solemnity, they swear by their beard; and when they express their good wishes for any one, they make use of the ensuing formula-God preserve thy blessed beard! From these instances, which serve to elucidate many other passages of the Bible besides that above quoted, we may readily understand the full extent of the disgrace wantonly inflicted by the Ammonitish king, in cutting off half the beards of David's ambassadors. Niebuhr relates, that if any one cut off his beard, after having recited a fatha, or prayer, which is considered in the nature of a vow never to cut it off, he is liable to be severely punished, and also to become the laughing-stock of those who profess his faith. The same traveller has also recorded an instance of a modern Arab prince having treated a Persian envoy in the same manner as Hanun treated David's ambassadors, which brought a powerful army upon him in the year 1765.2 The not trimming of the beard was one of the indications by which the Jews expressed their mourning. (2 Sam. xix. 24.).

"All the Grecian and Roman women, without distinction, wore their hair long. On this they lavished all their art, disposing it in various forms, and embellishing it with divers ornaments. In the ancient medals, statues, and basso-relievos, we behold those plaited tresses which the apostles Peter and Paul condemn, and see those expensive and fantastic decorations which the ladies of those times bestowed upon their head-dress. This pride of braided and plaited tresses, this ostentation of jewels, this vain display of finery, the apostles interdict, as proofs of a light and little mind, and inconsistent with the modesty and decorum of Christian women. St. Paul, in his first Epistle to Timothy, in the passage where he condemns it, shows us in what the pride of female dress then consisted. I will, says he, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety, not with BROIDERED HAIR, or GOLD, or PEARLS, or COSTLY ARRAY: but (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works, (1 Tim. ii. 9.) St. Peter in like manner ordains, that the adorning of the fair sex should not be so much that outward adorning of PLAITING the hair, and of wearing of GOLD, or PUTTING ON OF APPAREL: but let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight Rae Wilson's Travels in the Holy Land, &c. vol. i. p. 147. 3d edition. Descript de l'Arabie, p. 61.

V. Their legs were bare, and on the feet they wore SANDALS, or soles made of leather or of wood, and fastened around the feet in various ways, after the oriental fashion. (Gen. xiv. 23. Exod. xii. 11. Isa. v. 27. Mark vi. 9. John ì. 27. Acts xii. 8.) As luxury increased, magnificent sandals constituted, in the East, a part of the dress of both males and females, who could afford such a luxury. (Cant. vii. 1. Ezek. xvi. 10.) The sandals of Judith were so brilliant, that, notwithstanding the general splendour of her bracelets, rings, and necklaces, these principally succeeded in captivating the ferocious Holofernes. (Judith x. 4. xvi. 9.)5 On entering a sacred place it was usual to lay them aside (Exod. iii. 5. Josh. v. 15.), as is the practice among the Mohammedans in the East to this day. When any one entered a house, it was customary to take off the sandals, and wash the feet. (Gen. xviii. 4. xix. 2.) A similar custom obtains in India at the present time. Among persons of some rank it was the office of servants to take off the sandals of guests, and (after washing their feet) to return them to the owners on their departure. (Matt. iií. 11. Mark v. 7. Luke iii 16. John xiii. 4, 5. 14-16. 1 Tim. v. 10.) Persons, who were in deep affliction, went barefoot (2 Sam. xv. 30. xix. 24. Isa. xx. 2-4.); which, under other circumstances, was considered to be ignominious and servile. (Deut. xxv. 9, 10. Isa, xlvii. 2. Jer. ii. 25.)

VI. SEALS or SIGNETS, and RINGS, were commonly worn by both sexes.

Pliny states that the use of Seals or Signets was rare at the time of the Trojan war; but among the Hebrews they were of much greater antiquity, for we read that Judah left his signet as a pledge with Tamar. (Gen. xxxviii. 25.) The ancient Hebrews wore their seals or signets, either as rings on their fingers, or as bracelets on their arms, a custom which still obtains in the East. Thus the bride in the Canticles (viii. 6.) desires that the spouse would wear her as a seal on his arm. Occasionally, they were worn upon the bosom by means of an ornamental chain or ligature fastened round the neck. To this custom there is an allusion in Prov. vi. 21. The expression to set as a seal upon the heart, as a seal upon the arm (Cant. viii. 6.), is a scriptural expression denoting the cherishing of a true affection; with the exhibition of those constant attentions which bespeak a real attachment. Com

Mr. Emerson's account of the dress of the younger females in the house of the British consul in the Isle of Milo, in the Levant, strikingly illustrates the above-cited passages of St. Peter. He describes their hair as being PLAITED into long triple bands, and then twisted round the head, or left to flow gracefully behind them. They also wore four or five gowns interlaced with strings of zechins, mahmoudis, and other COLDEN COINS, and other GARMENTS, HEAPED ON with less taste than profusion, and all are secured at the waist by a velvet stomacher, richly embroidered, and glit term with gilded spangles. (Emerson's Letters from the Ægean, vol. ii.

p. 238.)

4 Harwood's Introd. to the New Test. vol. ii. pp. 101-103.

the island of Ceylon in particular, "the shoes of brides are made of velvet, Dr. Good's Sacred Idyls, pp. 147. 172. In the East generally, and in richly ornamented with gold and silver, not unlike a pair in the tower [of London] worn by queen Elizabeth." Callaway's Oriental Observ. p. 47. tions on this subject:-"I never understood the full meaning of our Lord's An intelligent oriental traveller has the following instructive observawords, as recorded in John xiii. 10., until I beheld the better sort of natives return home after performing their customary ablutions. The passage reads thus: 'He that is washed needeth not save to wash his feet, but is clean every whit.' Thus, as they return to their habitations barefoot, they necessarily contract in their progress some portion of dust on their feet; and this is universally the case, however nigh their dwellings may be to the river side. When therefore they return, the first thing they do is to mount a low stool, and pour a small vessel of water over their feet, to cleanse them from the soil they may have contracted in their journey homewards; if they are of the higher order of society, a servant performs it for them, and then they are clean every whit."" Statham's Indian Recollections, p. 81. London, 1832. 12mo.

Nat. Hist. lib. xxxiii. c. 1.

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CHAPTER III.

JEWISH CUSTOMS RELATING TO MARRIAGE.

I. Marriage accounted a sacred Obligation by the Jews.-II. Polygamy tolerated.—Condition of Concubines.-III. Nuptial
Contract, and Espousals.-IV. Nuptial Ceremonies.-V. Divorces.

ance.

I. MARRIAGE was considered by the Jews as a matter of more speedy peopling of the world, yet it is certain there is the strictest obligation. They understood literally and as a no such toleration under the Christian dispensation, and, precept these words uttered to our first parents, Be fruitful, therefore, their example is no rule at this day. The first who and multiply, and replenish the earth. (Gen. i. 28.) Their violated this primitive law of marriage was Lamech, who continual expectation of the coming of the Messiah added took unto him two wives. (Gen. iv. 19.) Afterwards we read great weight to this obligation. Every one lived in the hopes that Abraham had concubines. (Gen. xxv. 6.) And his that this blessing should attend their posterity; and therefore practice was followed by the other patriarchs, which at last they thought themselves bound to further the expectance of grew to a most scandalous excess in Solomon's and Rehohim, by adding to the race of mankind, of whose seed he was boam's days. The word concubine in most Latin authors, to be born, and whose happiness he was to promote, by that and even with us at this day, signifies a woman, who, though temporal kingdom for which they looked upon his appear-she be not married to a man, yet lives with him as his wife; but in the Sacred Writings it is understood in another sense. There it means a lawful wife, but of a lower order and of an inferior rank to the mistress of the family; and, therefore, she had equal right to the marriage-bed with the chief wife; and her issue was reputed legitimate in opposition to bastards: but in all other respects these concubines were inferior to the primary wife: for they had no authority in the family, nor any share in household government. If they had been servants in the family before they came to be concubines, they continued to be so afterwards, and in the same subjec tion to their mistress as before. The dignity of these primary wives gave their children the preference in the succession, so that the children of concubines did not inherit their father's fortune, except upon the failure of the children by these more honourable wives; and, therefore, it was, that the father commonly provided for the children by these concubines in his own lifetime, by giving them a portion of his cattle and goods, which the Scripture calls gifts. Thus Sarah was Abraham's primary wife, by whom he had Isaac, who was the heir of his wealth. But besides her, he had two concubines, Hagar and Keturah; by these he had other children whom he distinguished from Isaac, for it is said, He gave them gifts, and sent them away while he yet lived. (Gen. xxv. 5, 6.) In Mesopotamia, as appears from Gen. xxix. 26., the younger daughter could not be given in marriage" before the first-born" or elder, and the same practice continues to this day among the Armenians, and also among the Hindoos, with whom it is considered criminal to give the younger daughter in marriage before the elder, or for a younger son to marry while his elder brother remains unmarried.3

Hence celibacy was esteemed a great reproach in Israel; for, besides that they thought no one could live a single life without great danger of sin, they esteemed it a counteracting of the divine counsels in the promise, that the seed of the woman should bruise the head of the serpent. On this account it was that Jephthah's daughter deplored her virginity, because she thus deprived her father of the hopes which he might entertain from heirs descended from her, by whom his name might survive in Israel, and, consequently, of his expectation of having the Messiah to come of his seed, which was the general desire of all the Israelitish women. For the same reason also sterility was regarded among the Jews (as it is to this day among the modern Egyptians) as one of the greatest misfortunes that could befall any woman, insomuch that to have a child, though the woman immediately died thereupon, was accounted a less affliction than to have none at all; and to this purpose we may observe, that the midwife comforts Rachel in her labour (even though she knew her to be at the point of death) in these terms, Fear not, for thou shalt bear this son also. (Gen. xxxv. 17.)

From this expectation proceeded their exactness in causing
the brother of a husband, who died without issue, to marry the
widow he left behind, and the disgrace that attended his refus-
ing so to do; for, as the eldest son of such a marriage became
the adopted child of the deceased, that child and the posterity
flowing from him were, by a fiction of law, considered as the
real offspring and heirs of the deceased brother. This ex-
plains the words of Isaiah, that seven women should take hold
of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our
own apparel; only let us be called by thy name, to take away
our reproach. (Isa. iv. 1.) This was the reason also why the
Jews commonly married very young. The age prescribed to
men by the Rabbins was eighteen years. A virgin was
ordinarily married at the age of puberty, that is, twelve years
complete, whence her husband is called the guide of her
youth (Prov. ii. 17.), and the husband of her youth (Joel i.
8.); and the not giving of maidens in marriage is in Psal.
Ixxviii. 63. represented as one of the effects of the divine
anger towards Israel. In like manner, among the Hindoos,
the delaying of the marriage of daughters is to this day re-
garded as a great calamity and disgrace.2

II. From the first institution of marriage it is evident that
God gave but one woman to one man; and if it be a true, as
it is a common, observation, that there are every where more
males than females born in the world, it follows that those
men certainly act contrary to the laws both of God and na-
ture who have more than one wife at the same time. But
though God, as supreme lawgiver, had a power to dispense
with his own laws, and actually did so with the Jews for the
1 The most importunate applicants to Dr. Richardson for medical advice
were those who consulted him on account of sterility, which in Egypt (he
says) is still considered the greatest of all evils. "The unfortunate couple
believe that they are bewitched, or under the curse of heaven, which they
fancy the physician has the power to remove. It is in vain that he declares
the insufficiency of the healing art to take away their reproach. The par-
ties hang round, dunning and importuning him for the love of God, to pre-
scribe for them, that they may have children like other people. 'Give me
children, or I die,' said the fretful Sarah to her husband; 'Give me child-
ren, or I curse you,' say the barren Egyptians to their physicians." Dr.
Richardson's Travels along the Mediterranean, &c. vol. ii. p. 106. A nearly
similar scene is described by Mr. R. R. Madden, who travelled in the East
between the years 1824 and 1827. Travels in Turkey, &c. vol. ii. p. 51.
2 Ward's History, &c. of the Hindoos, vol. ii. p. 327. Maurice's Indian
Antiquities, vol. vii. p. 329. Home's History of the Jews, vol. ii. pp.
350, 351.

III. No formalities appear to have been used by the Jews--at least none were enjoined to them by Moses-in joining man and wife together. Mutual consent, followed by consummation, was deemed sufficient. The manner in which a daughter was demanded in marriage is described in the case of Shechem, who asked Dinah the daughter of Jacob in marriage (Gen. xxxiv. 6-12.); and the nature of the contract, together with the mode of solemnizing the marriage, is described in Gen. xxiv. 50, 51. 57. 67. There was, indeed, a previous espousal or betrothing, which was a solemn promise of marriage, made by the man and woman each to the other, at such a distance of time as they agreed upon. This was sometimes done by writing, sometimes by the delivery of a piece of silver to the bride in presence of witnesses, as a pledge of their mutual engagements. We are informed by the Jewish writers that kisses were given in token of the espousals (to which custom there appears to be an allusion in Canticles i. 2.), after which the parties were reckoned as man and wife.5 "After such espousals were made (which

3 Home's History of the Jews, vol. ii. p. 352. Paxton's Illustrations of Scripture, vol. iii. p. 129. 2d edit. Hartley's Researches in Greece and the Levant, pp. 229, 230.

4"Before the giving of the law (saith Maimonides), if the man and woman had agreed about marriage, he brought her into his house and privately married her. But, after the giving of the law, the Israelites were com manded, that if any were minded to take a woman for his wife, he should receive her, first before witnesses, and henceforth let her be to him to wife,-as it is written, 'If any one take a wife.' This taking is one of the affirmative precepts of the law, and is called 'espousing." Lightfoot's Hora Hebr. on Matt. i. 18. (Works, vol. xi. p. 18. 8vo. edit. 1823.)

Dr. Gill's Comment. on Sol. Song i. 2. The same ceremony was practised among the primitive Christians. (Bingham's Antiquities, book xxii. c. 3. sect. 6.) By the civil law, indeed, the kiss is made a ceremony, in Justin. lib. v. tit. 3. de Donation. ante Nuptias, leg. 16.) Fry's Translation some respects, of importance to the validity of the nuptial contract. (Cod. of the Canticles, p. 33.

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